

What If?
It was a conversation between me, two college guys and three married men. After many years of listening and participating with men and...


First Impressions
I was at Starbucks the other morning and I looked over and saw an attractive man dressed in athletic gear. I knew I had seen him there...


The Dangers of Authenticity
When I have surveyed people about what they think it means to be authentic in the dating world, they all basically say, in some...


Do you want to be Right or Connected?
When you blame, shame and have a high need to be right, you are holding the other person accountable for YOUR feelings and for the wounds of