The Dangers of Authenticity
When I have surveyed people about what they think it means to be authentic in the dating world, they all basically say, in some variation, “It means to be your true self.” Meaning, say what you want to say, be who you want to be, feel how you want to feel so someone can get to know the real you. That’s a good place to start, however there are other things to consider when deciphering how, when or even to what level being authentic is appropriate. Information is an aspect of
Do you want to be Right or Connected?
When you blame, shame and have a high need to be right, you are holding the other person accountable for YOUR feelings and for the wounds of
