It was a conversation between me, two college guys and three married men. After many years of listening and participating with men and their conversations, I could tell this particular one was heading into the topic of the “wives." The married guys are trying to advise each other out of misery, while at the same time, warning the college guys to never get married. The complaints were basically all the same. They didn’t feel appreciated for all they did. Intimacy was sparse

I was at Starbucks the other morning and I looked over and saw an attractive man dressed in athletic gear. I knew I had seen him there before so when he smiled, I smiled a flirty smile in return, signaling that I noticed him....again. After grabbing my drink, I walked over and initiated a conversation. He was wearing athletic gear and looked very fit, so I assumed he was an athlete of some sort. That was my "in" to start a conversation, so I walked up and asked, “Where do y