What if your relationships were the best part of your life?
Take the quiz and find out your relationship intelligence score
One of the five main ingredients for thriving relationships is emotional intelligence. When you find out your relationship EQ score, you'll see exactly where to put your energy to create stronger, more fulfilling connections. And as a bonus, you'll get my mini e-book The 5 Ingredients for Thriving Connections (even with your pets).
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Do your closest relationships ever leave you feeling like this?
My needs don’t matter.
I stay in the wrong relationships far too long.
I want more and nothing I do is working.
I don’t know why I keep attracting relationships that always end.
I’m so tired. I just want a relationship where I can be myself.
Is it too much to ask for the same effort I put in?
Ready to experience something different?
You know that bliss on a cold night when you’re wrapped in your softest PJs, curled up in your favorite spot, hands around a steaming mug (Irish cream hot chocolate with extra marshmallows - because we’re not amateurs here), and you let out that big, happy sigh?
Now imagine feeling that kind of cozy, safe, and at-ease in every relationship that matters to you most.
No eggshells. No guessing games. No pretending to be someone you’re not. Just honest, steady, deep connections that hold you up through the worst of life and help you create the best of life.
How would your life be different if you had people in your life that made you feel that way…all the time?
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Those deep, cozy, soul-level connections - they matter. Not just because they are full of moments that make life better…they are quite literally medicine! Studies have shown that a lack of meaningful connections can cut your lifespan by up to 10 years! 10 years! That’s a whole decade of belly laughs, bear hugs, spooning, and late-night “you won’t believe what just happened” calls.
I know you want more out of your connections. You probably have read a lot of books, binged on “how to” videos, and maybe visited an advice forum (or 2) trying to find ways you can change things. Yet…you’re still on that damn hamster wheel - smarter for sure - but still revolving around the same patterns that make you feel stuck and like there’s something missing. It’s exhausting, isn’t it?
I get it. Relationships can feel like an emotional escape room, full of hidden clues and mixed signals. And making real, lasting shifts? Yeah… not exactly a walk in the park — especially when it comes to romance.
My goal is to help you peel back those layers so you can uncover what is sourcing the patterns that shape how you connect and who you’re drawn to.
Level up your ability to relate, communicate, and (deep breath)... learn what it really takes to forgive and release those nasty emotional boogers from your past that are clogging up your connection flow. Because the love and depth you’re craving? It’s totally within reach, once you clear out what’s in the way. I’m here to help you figure that out.
I’m Heidi
I’ve always been drawn to the mystery of human behavior. In college, I went full detective - reading books, dissecting articles, going to workshops, and secretly observing myself and teammates on long bus rides to soccer games. I figured if I could just understand why people hurt each other or why we’re so insecure (myself very much included), then maybe I could somehow free myself from the trauma tornado living inside me, caused by decades of abuse, torture, and programming.
I could have easily written a dissertation on human behavior, but none of it helped me feel safe enough to let anyone in. My Mt. Everest sized walls? A+ in sabotage and security, F in intimacy. Even though all I wanted was to feel deeply and safely connected, I was trapped behind those walls that never allowed me to feel any meaningful level of vulnerability. Eventually, I learned that the secret sauce to my freedom wasn’t in learning more, it was in taking action by directly chipping away at those walls - sometimes with a hard hat and sledge hammer and sometimes with a scalpel that required patience, precision, and mastery. I had help, of course. A lot of it! I found people ahead of me who showed me the missing pieces and that freedom was closer than I realized.
I want you to feel how I get to feel…
I finally reached a place where my relationship world is fantastic! I’m seen, I’m known, and I’m expected to stand in my power.
Every revenge plot I let go of, every betrayal I forgave, every ounce of pain I let move through me...all of it led me to this:
A life filled with love that’s deep, supportive, accepting, and fun - messiness and all!
With relationships like these, it means the tough stuff doesn’t take me down, and the good stuff? It feels like pure gold. Life just hits different when you’re surrounded by the right kind of people that lift you up in every way - animal companions included.
I’d love to show you how to get there!
Turns out, scaling my Mt. Everest-sized walls came with some surprising souvenirs - 10 mindset pillars that can make your relationships better than ever -even with your pets!
Every close relationship is a reflection of what you believe you deserve.
If you are in a relationship that is critical and judgmental, take a look at your self-talk. If you tend to get cheated on, look at where you’re betraying yourself. If you don’t feel seen and valued, where are you not listening and caring for your own needs? If your dog is always ignoring you, where are you ignoring your own inner voice? The quality of love and connection you have on the outside, is sourced by the type of love and connection you have with yourself.
You can have a PhD in what’s wrong with your relationships, but until you apply what you know, it’s just trivia night in your head.
Insight without action is like buying a gym membership and never showing up. If you want different results, stop reading and scrolling, roll up your sleeves, and do something with all that knowledge. What do I mean by this? Forgive everything. Yep…ALL of it! Learn how to pair compassion with your pain. Know your triggers inside out and how to work with them in a healthy way. Knowledge put into action is the key to transformation.
The good things will only happen to the extent that you risk allowing the bad things to happen too.
All your emotions live in one big pot. When your pain shows up and you try to bury it, you are putting a lid on your entire emotional system - not just the yuck. What effect does this have? It will dampen your ability to feel the good stuff too. Do you really want to limit your happiness meter? Working with your fears of the bad stuff is the secret sauce to increased happiness, deeper connections, and stronger love.
Interested in the other 7 mindset pillars so you can begin to create powerful changes in your relationships?
Click below and get my free mini ebook:
“10 Mindset Pillars for Soul-Filling Connections”
WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING
“LIKE NOTHING I’VE EVER HEARD”
I love how Heidi teaches. She is quite gifted at teaching in a simple, yet entertaining way. What she teaches is like nothing I've ever heard before and it opened up so many new possibilities for improving my relationships. I finally have the direction I've been looking for.
Celia W.
“LIFE CHANGING METHODS”
I’ve found Heidi's approach to be fierce and compassionate, with no stone left unturned. What I loved most about her guidance is how she helped me develop and stay connected to my inner wisdom, while facing many losses during Covid. With Heidi and her life-changing methods, you will be in good hands long after your time shared.
Tom H.
“RIGHT TO THE CORE”
Wow! I thought I knew a lot about healing from the past. Heidi filled in so many holes I didn't even know were there. She goes right to the core and helped me know what I needed to do to get my life back on track and start giving my dreams some life again. Money well spent!
Amy S.
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Ready to explore? Let’s open up your Records and see what treasures are waiting for you. Discover the hidden patterns shaping your relationships, uncover the beliefs tucked away in your subconscious, and rewrite the stories that no longer serve you. Think of it as an adventure into your soul’s library where healing, love, and endless possibilities are waiting. Let’s have some fun!
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ONLINE PRIVATE AND GROUP COACHING
Tired of running in circles? It’s time to step out of your own way and into real change. Join my bi-weekly small group sessions (or dive deep with private coaching) where you’ll grow your emotional intelligence, master stress like a pro, and finally release the old wounds that have been weighing you down. Think of it as going to the gym for your soul and I’m your trainer :).
I’M READY TO START WORKING OUT!
DATING ALCHEMY
Let’s be real - dating kinda sucks. The common experience is full of mixed signals, ghosting, and a ton of first dates that go nowhere. But here’s the twist: those challenges are your training ground for becoming more powerful and resilient - key ingredients to successful relationships. When you learn how to flip the script where every rejection builds confidence and every misstep sharpens your emotional intelligence, then even the worst parts of dating are serving a great purpose for you.
I’M READY TO FLIP THE SCRIPT!