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What if you absolutely loved and treasured every single close relationship in your life - how do you think your life would be different?
Imagine…
Adding an extra dose of laughter and joy into your day anytime you needed it.
Knowing that you can get through anything, because you have unshakable support.
Feeling valuable, known, appreciated, and nourished every single day.
Having a shi*** day, but you know exactly where to go to get some comfort and encouragement.
Loving your life, because you have connections that support and encourage your greatness.
Becoming a Master Relationship Architect
What makes relationships so hard? Why is divorce so common? How come feeling safe, vulnerable and known is such a rare experience for most people? Why do most people walk through life depleted and overwhelmed?
Understanding the answer to these questions is part of the journey of becoming a Master Relationship Architect. It means having a high emotional intelligence that allows you to see and understand the deeper layers of your own reactions as well as anyone else you are interacting with. It means you are open yet discerning about who you invite into your life, because you know your heart and connection are sacred. It means you are resourced and highly skilled in working with how you feel, so you stay empowered and avoid the trap of the victim mindset when you get hurt. Most of all, you are in alignment with your standards as to how you need to be treated in order to thrive in a connection. And most of all, you are in relationship with the darker side of yourself and others, so you can develop the ability to love ALL parts that show up in a connection.
I’m Heidi
Needless to say, I had many existential crises as I explored the expansive nature that lives within each and every one of us. Somehow my mind was able to put the most obscure pieces of the puzzle together to make sense of it all - and it saved my life.
Ever since I can remember, I have been fascinated with relationships. I had an insatiable curiosity about human behavior that drove me into reading books, going to seminars, and using my own relationship world as a lab for understanding the what, why, and how of connection and behaviors - especially my own.
Why? Why do people do what they do?
I had to understand the answer to this. But instead of focusing on the best of humanity, I dove into the darkness. I studied questions like, “How does the worst of someone begin? How does it grow? What allows the darkness to take over? Why does darkness even exist and how does it work with the light? Why in the world do we knowingly sabotage what we want and why does everyone have darkness within them?”
I believed that if I could just understand the darkness, then maybe somehow I would hurt less from the extensive abuse, torture, programming, and slavery I survived for over two decades. And maybe, just maybe, I would figure out how to trust for the first time, or learn what safety felt like, or actually be able to fall in love. And while I eventually gained the knowledge and understanding to this “why” question, the very different, and much more arduous path of healing from horrific trauma, was what taught me how limitless and powerful we actually are.
Today, I get to love and connect more deeply than I ever imagined. I get to feel safety and trust with the people I surround myself with. I am able to laugh so hard that I can’t breathe and cry with every ounce of my being, because I have full access to my emotions now. I am able to remember the people from my past who broke me over and over and over again - and only wish for their freedom too. And one of the greatest, most powerful gifts I built throughout my healing journey, was an unshakable inner strength. There is nothing I cannot face or overcome. There is nothing I cannot heal from.
I AM highly emotionally intelligent. I AM resourceful. I AM skilled. I AM supported. I AM resilient - and I LOVE my life and every single relationship in it!
My heart’s desire is to share with you what it takes to forgive and release anything from your past so you are free to fall in love with yourself, your life, and all the relationships you invite into your world…and not just when life is good - but when it’s awful and challenging. And not just for a season - but for a lifetime. I want to help equip you with everything you need to a relationship world that makes you fall in love with being alive.
Let’s take a journey together. Click below to learn the different ways to work with me.
WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING
“LIKE NOTHING I’VE EVER HEARD”
I love how Heidi teaches. She is quite gifted at teaching in a simple, yet entertaining way. What she teaches is like nothing I've ever heard before and it opened up so many new possibilities for improving my relationships. I finally have the direction I've been looking for.
Celia W.
“LIFE CHANGING METHODS”
I’ve found Heidi's approach to be fierce and compassionate, with no stone left unturned. What I loved most about her guidance is how she helped me develop and stay connected to my inner wisdom, while facing many losses during Covid. With Heidi and her life-changing methods, you will be in good hands long after your time shared.
Tom H.
“RIGHT TO THE CORE”
Wow! I thought I knew a lot about healing from the past. Heidi filled in so many holes I didn't even know were there. She goes right to the core and helped me know what I needed to do to help get my life back on track and start giving my dreams some life again. Money well spent!
Amy S.
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AKASHIC RECORD READINGS
Your fears, negative beliefs, and sabotaging patterns impact every aspect of your life. Let's dive in and talk with your Akashic Record Keepers. They always have a powerful and expanded viewpoint that can bring healing to any situation you want help with.
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PRIVATE AND GROUP COACHING
If you are ready to stop spinning in circles and get out of your own way, join my weekly small group sessions or sign up for private coaching. We focus on building your emotional intelligence, developing your skills to manage stress, and strengthen your ability to forgive and release old wounds.
DATING ALCHEMY
The pursuit of love can be a very frustrating and confusing journey. It invites a lot of games, drama, and rejection into your life - BUT - that’s what makes this journey so powerful. Learn how to alchemize the challenges of dating into confidence, resilience, and high emotional intelligence.
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